A second reason for the negative feelings of the peoples of the older children still in diapers, the fact that parents use cloth diapers and rubber pants for the children using them. That meant a lot of work for parents, especially before the advent of washing machines. In this situation the parents feel forced to leave their children diapers as soon as possible. Could be if an older child has to wear diapers to bed for wetting the bed, the parents wereirritated by the prospect of spending years trying, wash diapers and rubber pants. As a result, many parents used to try and shame approach out of diapers.
Over the years we have educated more on this subject (although we still have a long way to go in my opinion) and most people realize that this approach does not work and in many cases the situation could worsen. That said, people who had bedwetting problem, as young people were more reminiscenttheir parents with them with this approach and this technique could also be with their children.
A third reason for our negative position on this comes from our attitude to various stages of a person's life. Most cultures have certain expectations if you want certain things, we are actually a driving license of a certain age (I know a woman, 24 years, is still without a driver's license) to achieve and maintain, we have graduated from highSchool of a certain age, etc. Nowhere is our deepest cultural expectations of use with bedwetting and diaper and when a person in need of diapers last year, which is socially acceptable to most people who awaken in them the idea should ashamed.
To return to the attitudes of parents to use the diaper I wonder if one reason that most parents are so insistent about their child or teenager in diapers at night is that some of them are ashamedon it. It 'a very competitive world out there, and any error could have a child, you wonder how something that must be corrected or hidden in any case. The prevailing attitude among many parents that their children have everything perfect, because any sign of imperfection is seen by society as a sign of weakness. There is immense pressure for parents to ensure that their children attend the best schools that participate in many activities after school, because it looks goodfirst plates, sports, etc. Imagine if you were outside the age of 18, Susan still in diapers and plastic pants at night? Just to go to Harvard!
Parents are also competitive with each other and, unfortunately, some hyper-competitive parents use children as pawns, consciously or unconsciously, in this competition. They feel that any error the children perhaps a reflection on their parenting skills and maybe make them look bad. "What our friendsand neighbors think when they found our 15 year old son still wears diapers and plastic pants at night? How embarrassing! "We need to grow! Everyone has some weaknesses, this is what makes us human! The only thing we can do is accentuate our strengths and do our best to work on our mistakes and try to improve ourselves, but we should not 't obsess over our weaknesses.
A fourth reason for our negative feelings on the use of diapers to manage bedwetting has to do with ourEmphasis on self-image. Although it is a universal concept of this concept is particularly important in the U.S. Most of our notions of self-image are, unfortunately, rather superficial. We are very satisfied with status, power, success and image, and these four things are inextricably linked in the minds of many people who have a strong self-image associated affected. A large number of people believe that wearing diapers the opposite of all four qualities, in which people feel a strong self-image is is made. Above all, a significant number of people believe that the diaper is a feeling of helplessness, no doubt due to the fact that most people associate with baby diapers. Of course many people see children as the epitome of helplessness. Because of this vision, a large number of people develop a negative self-image when using diapers bedwetting.
A fifth reason is that some people who believe that working for the child in diapers> Enuresis in essence, "they will be allowed, urinate in bed" or "okay, the bed is wet." Believe it or not, I heard some people say, and I think it's one of the most ridiculous things I've ever heard. Since the purpose of wearing diapers with the child or teen to keep the bed dry at night I think it sends the opposite message, which is bathed in a mess, the bed. In no way, put a child or young person in a diaper a problemcan not be interpreted to control how "okay, the bed is wet." I think it sends the message that parents are their children to make it as comfortable as possible until a cure is found. Or when treatment options are not currently working or are not able to live for some reason, must go, they wear diapers, because it is more healthy for the child and makes them more comfortable.
Diapers should not be the first option used to wet the bed, butThey are also used when all alternatives have been exhausted or should be, are not desirable or possible. For me diapers should not be treated differently than sanitary towels for women.
A sixth reason why many people are so wet the bed against the older bands still think the group at night. People generally want to respect this trend is the fact that people go with the prevailing wisdom without questioning their validity. Internalize, andis so ingrained in their minds that think of nothing else. We are like fish in water, not so much a part of their lives and their environment that does not even notice. The fact that the majority believe in something is no guarantee it is accurate. History shows that in many cases only a minority or a visionary, the right and the majority is wrong.
Finally, it tends to give much credence to what some experts of words, without questioning their validity. I am notsuggesting that not all listen to the experts say, but we must note the following points: Experts often have conflicting opinions, which means it could either confirm that indeed have opposing views on certain issues or that the issue is complex and need further research to pursue in order to make a definitive statement or consensus.
Secondly, there were many situations in which experts were then shown to be false. Child care is no exception.For example, was originally thought that Mozart would have played a positive effect on brain development of unborn child have. This theory of '"Mozart effect" has been known to be wrong (who knows, after further research and better understanding of knowledge that could change his mind again, this has happened with certain things) is in this context, it is conceivable that manage our current views about the use of diapers for bed wetting are also wrong (I firmly believethat this is the case, and that our way of thinking is completely wrong on this issue), although how deeply rooted our settings we could on the subject one or more generations to overcome this inertia and to rethink our current attitude towards of this situation.
A seventh reason why many parents use pull-up or "Goodnites" instead of diapers for their bedwetting young person can be that they are not aware of the different brands and types of products for managingBedwetting. As before, there are many ways to manage his bedwetting mentioned. Also, some styles can be used not so much because of differences generational change. For example, although some very young parents pin-on diapers and plastic pants to use for their children, most younger parents are probably not familiar with pin-on diapers and rubber pants, because they are so popular as they once were. Parents, pin-on cloth diapers and rubber pants are for themChildren can still be used when using their children or children who wet the bed as the parents are familiar with them, but parents who do not use it or are not familiar with them could not, unless their friends , relatives or other people suggest. Secondly, even if the parents are aware of the different ways that you have to manage their child or teen bedwetting is a lot of time sorting through all this information to make informedThe decision on how best to buy products. There is an incredible variety of products out there to deal with bed wetting and it can be quite daunting to learn about all the different products out there.
And 'where the doctor's role is to play. I think urologists, pediatricians and other medical professionals should have some basic knowledge about different types of diapers to bed wetting and the pros and cons of managementeach. While, of course, have an encyclopedic knowledge of this, they can tell their patients about the basic types of cloth diapers as a pin-on diapers, pull-in, snap-on and Velcro, and disposable diapers as For example, a tape of diapers and pull-ons.
You can also find different types of plastic waterproof trousers and pants how different types of waterproof sheets. If possible they should also have a list of several companies that sell both types of diapersand a list of web sites (such as organizations incontinence bedwetting forums and other resources). These organizations may be more information that is not listed in medical practice as a further production companies, sell and incontinence products, information on support groups, bedwetting, etc.
I read that the United States and other countries, wound, ostomy and continence nurses are. From what I've wound, ostomy and continence to understandNurses (abbreviated wocn nurses), the following functions: to inform the patient about the different lead types and brands of products for incontinence and the different types, some products can cause skin conditions such as diaper rash and / or other effects problems, which species and to use the brands of skin care products, if this is the case, Desitin, A & D ointment, powder, Vaseline, petroleum jelly, such as brand, lotions, etc., the advantages and disadvantages of various absorbents, besidesseveral companies that sell incontinence products to help patients bring to decide which type to buy products for their current needs.
I think it's a good thing that we are such experts, after all, is much time trying to find this information on your own, you can while a nurse or other medical professional specializing enuresis and urinary incontinence questions other information faster andefficiently through the resources they have available. And 'I am convinced that if more people aware of the different administration methods diapers bedwetting more people could use these products so that the stigma associated with older children, adolescents, teens and adults wearing diapers at night. The medical community can play an important role in reducing this stigma from both parents and patients of these possibilities.
AnotherWay to reduce the stigma of using diapers to manage nocturnal enuresis in older children, adolescents, young adults can discuss and talk show hosts on their shows this. I think this would be a perfect topic to discuss on Oprah. Due to the nature and depth of material that could make a point to two or more part of the series on it. One might argue about what bedwetting experts who carried out the ages, adult bedwetting, various treatments andTreatments for them and the pros and cons of each, to the best ways to deal with mentally if they can not be cured, and manage the various types of protection for bedwetting.
Regarding security, the experts would discuss the various options available to manage bedwetting diapers and the pros and cons of each. Some of the options described in this segment would like to pin on cloth diapers, pull-in and other types of disposableAs the tape on diapers and pull-on, the various types of plastic rain pants as trousers, and different types of waterproof sheets. I think it's important to talk about all these options for two reasons. One, they know the parents of their options for youngter the bedwetting is not about them, or if they know of them might not have known in advance as you can manage. Two, so more people might consider these different types of clothingReducing their stigmatization.
Oprah has a lot of power and influence, and I think that people like her (and other famous people) could help to use the negative image of bedwetting and diapers. I guarantee that after this episode of Oprah diapers would sell like hotcakes, department stores such as Wal-Mart and Target and grocery stores like Giant, could not on the shelf. By two doctors and celebrities to recommend this diaper may have a snowball effect. For For example, someone who used nappies for their bedwetting, or because doctors advised celebrities may in turn recommend the use of diapers for his friend / friends, children with bedwetting problems using the number of people, diapers for wetting the bed must manage. Address the consequent increase in the number of people who wear diapers to bed-wetting is to do more with the stigma of using diapers to reduce associated> Enuresis.
We as a society are affected as well as gained a lot of medical problems. For example, there is less stigma of mental illness and other health problems, but unfortunately, bedwetting and the use of diapers to manage it, is a subject that remains taboo. We are very insistent on this issue. Most of the people for a variety of reasons do not want to touch this topic. I suspect that in the future we will relax this topic to a certainExtent, but I think there will always be people who will see this in a negative light, no matter how convincing we discuss the merits of diapers bedwetting.
One of the main reasons for the stigma of using the diaper-age bed moist is to do with our thoughts and feelings about the issue of dignity. Many older children, adolescents and young people feel undignified diapers to bed. It is to a large extent our concept of the dignity of both markedconsciously or unconsciously, by people we admire, such as athletes, artists and heroes. We have this idealized image of them, and we tend to project the image to extract all aspects of their personal lives. This perfect image that we imagine we do not have a problem, such as bed wetting. Of course we must not forget that these people are also human and subject to different health problems, which are also among them. In fact, many stars of the caliber ofSuzanne Sommers, Michael Landon Johnny Carson and experienced enuresis (just to name a few), when they were growing up.
I have a feeling that the ideas of dignity go hand in hand to a large extent with our feelings of independence are able to accept themselves and run their lives. Diapers as already mentioned, for many people to return (at least symbolically) in a state if their parents have to do this is a blow to a child or adolescent ego. Adults who haveWear diapers to bed and feel the shame. Many people find it very difficult to overcome this feeling of shame, and unfortunately some people can never happen. Although most people it is undignified to find diapers and plastic pants for bedwetting, I personally think it would survive the night in wet sheets and pajamas peeing a person feel unworthy!
It would also be a sense of control, which in turn refers to the sense of self-esteem and howwe feel more sure of ourselves. If we are confident, we believe that we control our lives and in turn makes us more worthy. Even to wear diapers to bed, we feel a lack of control, which in turn makes us less self-conscious. This in turn weakens our sense of dignity. This is the case with many other medical problems. For example, a person who has a cast for a broken leg or a person who has to wear to make insulin injectionsDiabetes can feel consciously or unconsciously, that he or she has no control. The cast and the needle is the feeling of a lack of control. The same goes for diapers and plastic pants to bed. Of course, every person is different to the extent that these feelings she and her ability to overcome these feelings.
One thing you should know, however, is that we are not defined by our disease. The fact that a person has to wear diapersRead is only a part of who that person is. The dignity of a person should show them the strength to face the adversities of life and how well they treat others are measured. If a person has to wear diapers to bed and treat them with a sense of grace and humor, then the fact that he or she needs diapers at night does not detract one iota of their dignity.
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